If I had to sum up 2024 in one word, it would be “revealing.”
The first photo I have of the year is preparing for Redemption’s Tell City office space to be constructed. A long-dormant space later to be revealed as useable space for our staff. A small win this year.
Mid-month sinus surgery revealed that my body is, indeed, mortal. I’m thankful I did it, but I don’t plan to do it again. Unlabored breathing is always good, however.
Bella moved into her first solo apartment after a revealing year, for her, of living with a roommate and being on her own for the first time. A new place — on her own — revealed the gravity of adult responsibilities.
February started with fun as we and some good friends got to see a band (Extreme) I had wanted to see for decades. However, the month would end with a major health scare for my father-in-law, revealing to us how quickly life can turn.
March can’t be properly represented in photos (despite the fun of seeing Jason Isbell again) as a major crisis in our church family ultimately revealed who we really are as a church and as a staff (good). It was a revelation (bad) that wolves can hide in sheep’s clothing, but shepherds must defend the sheep. For me, this event and a revelation about an individual in 2023 were a one-two punch that has taken some time to fully digest and has, if I'm being honest, revealed an anger not fully resolved in my heart and mind.
Late March to mid-April revealed a maturing family with a milestone birthday for Bella, 47 for me, and 19 for Gabi. The day before my birthday, the sun was hidden but was revealed again a few minutes later in a very cool cosmic event.
Staff transitions at work revealed things will always change and people will enter and exit your daily life on an ongoing basis. These changes also revealed to me that sometimes your role will change and you must answer the call by letting go.
The beach revealed the wonder of the natural world, watching a sand crab go about his daily task of digging was a highlight of our trip to Cape San Blas — just Shannon and I this year, revealing that our family dynamics are swiftly changing.
Letting go of three loved guitars revealed that sometimes letting go also means gaining (new guitar in November).
Family was a common theme of the year, where some things were revealed to us about ourselves as individuals and as a couple. Learning how to see our daughters as grown-ups was a huge revelation this year.
The last quarter of the year brought Shannon’s birthday, a trip to Arizona for me, another medical scare for Shannon’s dad (and another road trip), an election that revealed who we are as a people (but allowed the four of us to vote together for the first time ever), and Gabi’s revelation that her first car brought major adult responsibilities.
A family heirloom banjo and a new guitar brought some musical joy to a year that badly needed it, revealing that God’s grace is a sweet sound sometimes.
Wrapping up the year with Thanksgiving in Georgia and Christmas in Tennessee put a bow on the year with some good family visits.
Some revelations this year were bad, some were terribly difficult, but some were great, too. Shannon and I are as close as we’ve ever been, 26 years into our marriage, we feel settled and content — perhaps for the first time — living in Indiana, and we feel confident that we did the best we could raising our two daughters to be responsible human adults. We are so proud of them and how they are maturing — albeit with an anxiety about them that will, likely, never go away. Additionally, friendships became a revelation for us (introverts) this year and we hold them dear.
God's grace sustained us in 2024 and (good news) is promised to us for 2025. We're going to need it.